Many times we complain that we were not given the opportunity to do something, or even that C"V, Hashem does not want us to do that thing. We are truly mistaken. In fact, we really are given the opportunity to do the mitzvos, but we do not see them. When one finds themselves in this situation, one must think "How could I have been able to do this?"
Rav Shach, ZTz"L was once troubled with a tremendous kashya. In the middle of the night, he got a ride over to the Brisker Rav, and when he saw a light turn on early in the morning, he went in and explained his question to the Rav. When he returned to the Yeshiva, he was in a state of simcha. They asked him why he was so happy, and he told them when he explained the problem to the Brisker Rav, he answered "Dos is shver."
